“Chronic pain didn’t just change your body—it changed your relationships.”
Whether you're still together, barely holding on, or scared to try again—this 3-part course series helps Spoonies navigate love, loss, and real human connection in the middle of chronic illness.
Chronic illness doesn’t just affect the person in pain.
It affects trust.
It affects communication.
It affects sex, caregiving, resentment, and silence.
If your relationship has shifted, cracked, or disappeared under the pressure—you’re not alone. And you’re not failing.
No one gave you the tools. That changes now.
💞 Part 1: Staying Connected
For couples trying to hold on to love
How to communicate without guilt
What to do when sex disappears
Rebuilding trust after resentment
Care without control
💔 Part 2: Letting Go or Holding On
For Spoonies in strained or ending relationships
Am I asking too much—or not getting enough?
What to do when you're unsupported
Leaving someone while you're still sick
Boundaries, grief, and protecting your peace
💘 Part 3: Trying Again
For Spoonies navigating dating, sex, and disclosure
How to date while disabled (and own it)
Red flags, rejection, and emotional risk
When and how to tell someone about your illness
Saying yes to love without falling into fixer dynamics
What You’ll Get:
12 bite-sized video lessons (4 per course)
Reflection journals & boundary scripts
Spoonie-safe communication templates
Real-world tools for hard conversationsLifetime access + printable workbooks
It’s For You If:
Your relationship feels strained, distant, or off balance
You’re tired of performing your pain to be understood
You’re single and scared to start over
You feel alone—even when someone’s lying next to you
A Note the Creator:
I created this because I lived it.
I lost my marriage—not from lack of love, but from lack of tools.We were doing our best, but pain became the third partner in our relationship. And no one prepared us for that.
Now, he’s gone. And while I can’t go back and fix what we didn’t know, I can make sure you don’t have to walk this alone.
This is the program I wish we had. I hope it helps you stay connected—or find peace if you can’t.
A 3-part course program for Spoonies navigating love, loss, and connection in the middle of chronic illness.
For couples trying to hold on
For Spoonies in strained or breaking relationships: Know when staying costs too much End things with clarity—even while sick Process grief, guilt, and identity
For Spoonies dating again with boundaries: Rebuild dating confidence Say no to fixers, ghosters, and saviors Date as you are—not as someone else’s project